I haven’t written anything for awhile. Thought I would ease back into this blog by sharing a posting by Roberta Estes explaining Non-Parental Events, also known as MPE, Misattributed Paternal Event or misattributed parentage. She provides a much less judgemental view of how these might occur rather than “someone cheated”.
Retirement is hard work and we needed a break…we recently had a fun week vacation on Washington’s Long Beach Peninsula.
Before we headed up to Long Beach, we went to McMenamin’s Cosmic Tripster Party at Edgefield in Troutdale. We got to spend a little time with Jerry Garcia, but he didn’t have much to say.
Beer flowed freely…
…, and we got to meet up with some friends.
Long Beach is about 28 miles long and you can drive on most of it, so we did. It isn’t the most environmentally enlightened recreation, but it was fun.
The surf has claimed many vehicles and we were almost witness to another victim. A two-wheel drive car made the mistake of stopping in the wet sand and sank up to the axle with the tide coming in.
I offered use of my tow strap but they said they had one. I parked well above the high tide mark and watched the show. Good thing I stuck around as the strap they tried to pull the car out with broke and a few minutes later the person helping them drove up and sheepishly asked if they could borrow my strap. Minutes ahead of being overtaken by the incoming tide, they finally got the car free. When they returned my tow strap they asked if they could use it if the car got stuck again. Instead of getting off the beach at the nearby access road, they headed further up the beach. We left…they can figure it out if they got stuck again.
Long Beach has beach and wind, a perfect match for kites. After visiting the World Kite Museum, I wanted to go fly a kite. I forgot to bring my kite from home, so I bought one in town, a nice single line dragon. Just a bit to much wind for it so next day I bought a different style kite, a Delta Conyne style single line kite that flew like a champ. I decided 150 feet wasn’t enough and I needed more line. Line obtained, back at the beach. The wind was a bit lighter so it took a bit to coax the kite to the end of the first 150’ string. Then I hooked on the second 150’. Looking strong so I tried hooking on the next length.
A point to remember in future kite flying: When two people are holding on to a flying kite, it is important that they do not both let go at the same time.
It was sad, and yet
fascinating, to watch my new kite with 300+ feet of line slowly
drifting over the ocean waves, slowly descending, finally settling
into a watery grave well past the line of waves that might have
washed it back to shore.
My only regret is if some sea creature gets tangled up in the kite string. I didn’t have the heart to go back the next morning to see if the jumbled wreck of a kite had managed to wash ashore. We just packed up the motorhome and came home.
In this throw-away world, is refreshing—no, exciting—to discover something that has been passed down through succeeding generations for 200 years.
Over the years, I
have had occasional communications with cousins of various degrees
while researching our family tree. Quite a few years ago, I
exchanged letters with cousin Anna Bagley, and recently emails with
her son Floyd. Anna and Floyd are descended from James H Wilson by
his son Leonard Ray Wilson. Leonard was Thomas Jay Wilson’s (my
great grandfather) brother. Lost yet? Floyd and I are third
In a recent
exchange, Floyd mentioned that “Mom [Anna Bagley] passed away 2
years ago at age 94. Among her things was the wedding ring of Mary
Ann (Wilson) Dinwiddie, our 3g Grandmother who was married to Thomas
Dinwiddie in 1808. Leonard Wilson gave the ring to Mom before her
wedding. I have passed it on to my cousin’s daughter who in getting
married this month.”
This ring, pictured
above, has been in the family for over 200 years…and it has been
passed on to another generation. Floyd gave the ring to his first
cousin’s daughter who is getting married this month. Kimberly Anne
Duncan, daughter of Bradley Duncan, will be wearing the ring her 4th
great grandmother wore on her wedding day. “Something old,
something new, something borrowed, and something blue” ; you’ve
got “something old” covered, Kimi. I wish you great joy in
Here is how we are
related. Your results may vary.
Thomas Dinwiddie – Mary Ann Wilson —–James H Wilson – Mary Dinwiddie ———-Leonard Ray Wilson – Anna Cox —————Charles C Duncan – Vera May Wilson ——————–Charles William Duncan – Effie May Botti ————————-Bradley Robert Duncan – Dina Bianca Buti ——————————Kimberly Anne Duncan
Thomas Dinwiddie – Mary Ann Wilson —–James H Wilson – Mary Dinwiddie ———-Leonard Ray Wilson – Anna Cox —————Charles C Duncan – Vera May Wilson ——————–William Lyle Bagley – Anna Marie Duncan ————————-Floyd Dean Bagley
Thomas Dinwiddie – Mary Ann Wilson —–James H Wilson – Mary Dinwiddie ———-Thomas Jay Wilson – Harriet Anna Richards —————Charles Ebert Spring – Nellie Hazel Wilson ——————-Arden Ray Olsen – Ethel Maxine Spring ————————-Dan Ray Stoe
Thanks to Floyd, Brad, and Kimberly for letting me share their story, and thanks for visiting my site.
The following is a transcript of a letter my mother, Mickey Spring, wrote to her brother, Jimmy Spring Burleigh just after Christmas in 1942. Their mother, Nellie Wilson Spring, died just a year earlier. Jimmy was sent to live with their Aunt Ethel Wilson Burleigh and Uncle Blaine while Mickey was sent to live with her Aunt and Uncle, Peggy and Clarence Spring, in Seattle, Washington. I did not try to correct spelling or punctuation nor show how smart I am by inserting [sic] everywhere there is an error.
Dec 29, 1942 6705 W Holly St Seattle Washington
Dear Aunty, Jimmy, and Uncle Blaine
Thought I would write and tell you what I got for christmas. From Daddy a swell shenille house coat, and from Winnie I got a real nice watch. Those are the most usefull things I got although the other things are nice to. Boy I sure liked that book you sent me Im more than half through already, and thanks a lot for the bath salts and crayons Jimmy Honey. Winnie and I take turns reading my book, when she lays it down I pick it up and start reading it And its the same way with her when I get through reading it. Well weve got the radio working now and I had It on all morning. Say Jimmy honey please write and tell me what you got for christmas I’d sure like to no. Im sorry I couldn’t send you a present Honey but Ill see what I can do. Well I have some more letters I should write I’m to sleepy will write more some other time.
Loads and Loads of love
PS. Im getting older now I was 12 years old yesterday.
As I may have mentioned before, genealogy research is a big hobby of mine.
This week, I discovered a couple tools to help in my research. Both of these tools are on AncestryDNA, and they’ve been there for a while, but I hadn’t paid any attention to them.
I was recently contacted by new-to-me cousin Hollie. Using Matches Map Beta, she discovered that we live only 30 miles apart. Matches Map takes the actual location from your DNA matches’ profiles and plots them on a world map. When you zoom in and click on one of the markers, you see the user name and their actual location and a link to the DNA Match. This can be a bit unnerving for some as it very easily gives users access to where you live. If that is a concern, you can change your profile location to something more generic, such as United States. The upside is that you can find cousins close to home that might be able to help with your research. In this case, it was relatively easy to connect the pieces of the puzzle and connect Hollie’s tree with mine, but it might have taken a while before I worked my way down my list of DNA matches to get to her DNA results if she had not used Matches Map and contacted me.
The second tool I learned to use while using the Matches Map and I find it much more useful. This was the Shared Matches tab in AncestryDNA. There are a lot of people that don’t have any trees connected to their DNA, or have limited family information within their tree. There are several reasons for this: privacy concerns, lack of information, maybe lack of interest(although if you pop $60-$100 for a test, you would think there would be some motivation to get the most out of it). I see these probable cousin matches and wonder who they are and how they are connected.
Shared Matches helps narrow down the possibilities. There are two ways to use this tool. In my list of 4th-6th cousin matches, I find C.P. who has two unlinked trees listed. Both of these trees have limited information and no surnames to work with. Clicking on the Shared Matches tab, I see my daughter at the top of the Shared Matches list. Curiously, my son does not show up, but that is the nature of DNA. Scrolling down the list of Shared Matches, I find a couple paternal first cousins, which halves the potential connections by eliminating my maternal cousins, and a 2nd cousin twice removed on my paternal grandmother’s side, cutting likely connections in half yet again. Now, if I want to pursue to connection to C.P. in more detail, I have a much smaller list to work through to see what, if any, family connection there is between us.
Another way to use Shared Matches is to select a close cousin from your matches list, 1st or 2nd cousins work best, then click on the Shared Matches tab. This will bring up a list of possible cousins to whom you are both related, again reducing the search parameters to the same side of the family as the cousin you used to see Shared Matches.
Note that you, your DNA Match, and your Shared Matches, won’t necessarily all share the same Most Recent Common Ancestor (MRCA). That will take more research, but now you have cut your work in half or better. Also, the Shared Match only shows 4th cousins or closer. This is both good and not so good. The reliability of DNA matches further back than 4th cousins isn’t as high as closer cousins, but it would be nice to have the option of reaching further back.
Check out this site for more information on Matches Map, and here for more information on Shared Matches, although just clicking on the gray ? following the “Shared Matches with…” line gets pretty good information on this tool.
My wife, Laura, and I just finished up a two-week vacation with our four grandkids—3 boys and a girl. We are very fortunate in that they all get along very well and are a joy to travel with. Hopefully, we left them with something they will remember for a long time.
My preferred method of travel is to wing it, making minimal reservations, and trusting to luck to discover a place to stay. That mostly works out fine for just the two of us. With four teenagers in the motor home with us, we thought it prudent to do more planning and less freewheeling.
There are several programs available to help plan trips. I use a web-based program called RVTrip Wizard. This program lets me enter my stops and waypoints, including fuel stops; calculates fuel consumption; shows a fairly comprehensive park listing across the country; and provides running total of expenses. It’s not free but at $39 per year, it is a pretty good deal.
For navigation, Google Maps on a cell phone is good…if you have service. You can download the maps, which helps. I also took along a GPS device; OK, but the maps were pretty dated for some of the areas we were in. Best was paper maps. Laura’s a pretty good navigator once see gets us located on the maps.
Even with RV Trip Wizard’s travel time estimates, we were always checking in late to the campgrounds. Fortunately, both private and public campgrounds made late check-ins very easy.
I didn’t think to plan laundry days. As you can imagine, six people can accumulate a fair amount of dirty clothes, even if some of the boys thought wearing the same t-shirt and pants for four days was their contribution to not having to do laundry. I had purchased and took with us a small (so it seemed in the picture on Amazon) portablewashing machine. The washer worked fine; the weather didn’t cooperate to give us nice warm drying weather, but we managed (with an assist from sister Susie in Iowa).
With so much to see and do, this truly is an amazing country.
While at Yellowstone we came across a herd of about 100 or so bison wandering back and forth across the road. We parked and watched these amazing animals for an hour or so. All together there are about 5,000 bison within Yellowstone. It is hard to imagine the 40,000 to 60,000 bison roaming the plains in 1800.
I was prepared to be underwhelmed at Mt.Rushmore, but as I read more and took the time to learn about it, I came to appreciate its artistry and meaning. After Mt. Rushmore, we toured the CrazyHorse Memorial. Work is not complete on Crazy Horse, but it is a very impressive tribute to one of the Native American heroes (yes,every culture needs their own heroes).
We missed the Corn Palace in Mitchell, SD. Just didn’t have time. We did see a lot of corn. While on the way to Mitchell, we stopped at the Dignity Statue, a tribute to the Native Americans of the plains of South Dakota. It is located at a rest stop overlooking the Missouri River—and it’s free.
We were expecting the Badlands of South Dakota to be unbearably hot, but it was windy and rainy. Not too surprising, really, since wind and water erosion is what formed the Badlands over the last 500,000 years.
Our eastward trek ended in Iowa with a stay at Viking Lake and a visit with sister Susie and brother-in-law Jeff. If you want a peek at what life might have been like in the early (Caucasian) settlement of the plains, you only have to visit my sister. She and Jeff have a nice garden from which they harvest and preserve vegetables; Susie spins yarn, from which she weaves, knits,and crochets beautiful items; Susie and Jeff also tend a small flock of chickens. Sure, it’s a new house and there is a truck and car in the driveway instead of a team of mules, but you can imagine…
From Iowa, we headed back home, with a stop to cool off at Roaring Springs Water Park in Meridian, Idaho. Cool off were the operative words. It was just a bit chilly for most of us. It was fun, however. I particularly liked the Cliffhanger and Corkscrew Cavern. Rattlesnake Rapids was pretty good; maybe they should have suggested a deep breath before launching down the tube.
Home at last. Grandkids are back with their parents who were glad to have some time by themselves but were even more glad to have their younguns back home.
Us? We’re busy cleaning up and fixing the motor home (Yellowstone was a bit brutal on the MH), trying to decide where we are off to next.
I’m sure we will discover something. Maybe go back and try some of those brewpubs we passed along the way. Honey, you’re driving.